Tears rain blah blah if you cried hard enough it’d sound like rain, if it could be heard over the sobs. Love love is a verb, a doing word, a doing what? How does one love? surely you’re just doing stuff that demarks your love. It’s all back to those choices again, and how and why we feel.
I bet you any money you don’t know anyone who believes life is complicated or complex who’s also a happy person. It’s usually smart people who are fooled into thinking life is complex or complicated, usually by themselves. I would also be willing to bet that a heck of a lot of smart people have at some point in their life believed that they’d be happier if they were less smart, or even stupid or simple, because life seems to be happier, or at least easier. I gaurantee you though that we really are all playing by the same rules. Sure you might not have the same opportunities, and you might believe that someone else is more talented/experienced/gifted or whatever than you. More often than not these things are excuses. The world is littered full of ‘inspiring’ stories of people overcoming adversity (and it’s quite often insane adversity) and pulling through and achieving their dreams and being happy despite all the things they’ve endured. So why is it when someone has a comparable molehill to overcome they’re rendered useless? Really someone living in the UK should have next to no excuse. You’ve almost definitely got a high school education, you’ve almost definitely got somewhere to live, what more do you need? money? go make some. a job? go get one. what’s going to stop you? other than an unlikely early death the only thing that truly holds you back are your own excuses. (here i’d like to note that i’m a master of making excuses, believe me I could have done all this some time ago, or at least have been making headway, maybe this is how it was meant to be? see i’m straying into excuses again!)
unexcusing yourself is pretty tricky. It can take a lot to unpack all your excuses and dissolve the fear that glues all this stuff together. Lets work on this together eh?
